Kayonza Couples Turn a New Page through GALS: From Conflict to Cooperation
A wave of transformation is sweeping through households in Kayonza District, where 63 couples who had long been living together informally have now sealed their unions through civil marriage marking a major milestone in promoting gender equality, harmony, and shared progress within families.
The ceremony, held in Ruramira Sector on this Wednesday 29th , brought together couples who graduated from the Gender Action Learning System (GALS) a community based training approach that helps families overcome conflicts, rethink gender roles, and work together for development. The initiative is implemented by the Kayonza District in partnership with RAB-SPIU under the KIIWP2 project.
For many, the event represented more than a legal process it was a symbol of dignity, peace, and mutual respect restored.
“We used to live in constant conflict,” recalled Uwambajimana Denyse, one of the newly married women. “Before, my husband made all the decisions alone and I had no say in how we used our income. Through GALS, we learned to plan together. Now, we share ideas, save, and invest as a team. I feel respected and valued.”
Her husband, Kanyanzira Silas, shared how the training reshaped his mindset. “I realized I was part of the problem. I used to think leadership at home was mine alone. GALS taught me that partnership brings more success. Today our family is stable, and we’re even expanding our farming business.”
Kayonza’s Mayor, Nyemazi John Bosco, who officiated the ceremony, described the occasion as “a victory for equality and development.”
“When families live together without legal recognition, it often breeds insecurity and conflict,” he said. “Formalizing marriage after mutual understanding strengthens trust and accountability. It allows couples to work together for their children and their future.”
The GALS approach uses visual tools such as the “gender tree,” the “dream map,” and the “relationship chart” to help couples reflect on their life goals, identify sources of conflict, and design a shared vision. Since its introduction in Kayonza, more than 16,000 residents have participated in GALS sessions, with over 500 families already formalizing their marriages.
According to Mukamugema Jeanne from Nkamba Cell, the impact goes beyond households. “Our children are happier now,” she said. “When parents live in peace, children perform better in school and grow up knowing the value of respect and teamwork.”
The event also served as a graduation for over 250 new GALS participants and the official launch of the campaign “Iwanjye Aheza Haruta Ahandi”, meaning “My home is the best place.” The campaign promotes peaceful and resilient families as the foundation of community development.
Mayor Nyemazi concluded with a call to action: “Let these couples be ambassadors of change. Gender equality is not a slogan it’s a daily practice that transforms homes and societies.”
As the newlyweds left the ceremony holding their certificates, the air was filled with joy and optimism a reflection of a community embracing a new chapter of cooperation, equality, and inclusive progress.
By Niwemugeni Clarisse
